GDL Mastermind - Radical Love

Many of us were taught that loving people means bleeding out for everyone, all the time. In this mastermind we looked at how Jesus actually loved, why burnout isn't holy, and how each NEXUS type is designed to love in its own way.

Start here if you're short on time

06:33 Jesus at the pool of Bethesda: why he healed one man and left

10:45 How each NEXUS type is designed to love

15:24 Saul's armor: why loving in someone else's design burns you out

22:30 When the most loving thing is to step back from a relationship

45:23 Q&A: Loving a spouse who's wired differently

Full chapters

00:00 Welcome

05:34 The lie that loving people means bleeding out

06:33 Jesus at the pool of Bethesda: one man, then he left

08:26 "The Son can do only what he sees his Father doing" (John 5:19)

08:48 Radical love isn't doing everything for everyone

09:37 God doesn't give generic assignments (Ephesians 2:10)

10:45 How each NEXUS type is designed to love

10:51 DRIVER: truth, challenge, removing obstacles (Paul)

11:54 INFLUENCER: momentum and belief (Barnabas)

12:43 STABILIZER: steady presence in the chaos (John at the cross)

13:44 SOLUTIONARY: clarity and a plan (Joseph)

14:53 "If they loved like me, they'd look like me"

15:24 Saul's armor: why burnout starts outside your design

17:40 Stop apologizing for the weapon God put in your hand

18:55 Activation: two questions

22:30 When the most loving thing is to step back from a relationship

23:53 The multitudes, the twelve, the three and the one

24:54 Praying for the people you disagree with

26:00 Paying attention to the Holy Spirit's timing

27:07 Radical love takes action and spiritual judgment

28:21 Inspiration without a system turns into a memory

28:56 Inside the God Designed Living Collective and KAVIX

39:51 Why the answer is often "do less"

43:40 Don't let the world define radical love for you

45:23 Q&A: Loving a spouse who's wired differently

46:35 Relationship with God, knowing yourself, knowing them

The activation

Pause at 18:55 and write these down.

Where are you currently loving out of obligation instead of alignment?

What's one decision you've been avoiding because you thought it was unloving, but it's exactly what your design requires? A boundary, a hard truth, walking away from a project?

Your NEXUS blueprint has a version of this topic written for your type.